Recently, I had a night out with the fellas. Just some time to kick it and catch up. It had been a while since I was out running the streets and it showed. Around 11:45pm, the sleepy monster kicked in and sat on my neck!! Out of nowhere, one of my boys swooped in and … Continue reading »
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Girl You Don’t Want That D!!: 5 Reasons Brittney is Not Ready for the League
March madness has reach a new level of foolishness!! Its easy to get caught up in the hoopla of brackets, Cinderella teams, and the upsets that come along with the NCAA tourney There is always a story that signifies the spirit of what college basketball is about…. this ain’t it. This is a story all about how my life about a … Continue reading »
Friends to Lovers..Is it Possible?
There is this one girl who has been in my life for a long time. And from day one I have been Jonesing. I tried to get at her back in the gap, in H.S., but she “had a man” and that dude was mad cool so I couldn’t just come in and throw salt on the … Continue reading »
F U? Pay Me!! – Gold Diggers Got it Right!
I was invited to be a part of a panel on relationships. Not sure if Chris Brown wasn’t available or if they just didn’t know what they were getting into by having me on the panel. Because I know my thoughts on relationships and marriage are….out of the box, I tried to temper my participation on certain … Continue reading »
A Tale of Two First Ladies
James Brown once said, “This is a man’s world; this is a man’s world But it wouldn’t be nothing, nothing without a woman or a girl” There is another saying, “Behind every great man, there’s a great woman” These quotes sum up the role and expectation of the First Lady, hold down the fort … Continue reading »
The Marriage Struggle is Real?
I was witness to some of the most outlandish ish in the world last week. I’m talking nonsense of epic proportions! I was eating at one of my favorite spots and saw a group of brothers (black men, no relation) eating dinner and catching up. I recognized one of the dudes and went over to speak … Continue reading »
Kim K: The Gold Standard of Black Beauty?
I’m going to go to a place today that may get me in a little trouble. Nevertheless, what is life without a little risk? I tend to be an observant type of cat. I like to know who and what is around me in case something pops off and I need to act fast. I … Continue reading »
Question of the day: Too Old to Fight?
You in the club with ya lady friend and you all are having a great time. Dancing, laughing, and dranking! You go to drain the lizard and come back to some cat trying to spit game at ya lady. Because you know ya gal is fine and maybe ol buddy didn’t see you dancing with her all … Continue reading »
Rules of Engagement: Dealing with an Ex on Social Media
Social media can be a relationship nail in the coffiner (new word). It never really kills a relationship. Most relationships that end over social media drama were more than likely to fail anyway, but FB or Twitter just sped up that process. I mean, what did you think was going to happen when you told … Continue reading »
5 Things We Can Do Without
The other day I got one of those cornball emails asking me to list 5 Things I Couldn’t Live Without. You know the kind of email I’m talking about. Where it presents a hypothetical island life and you only have time to take five things with you. It asked my questions about what I would … Continue reading »